Letters to Messy Perfectionists

Letters to Messy Perfectionists

The loneliness of taking care of everyone else - and what it's protecting.

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Rachel Willimott
Apr 23, 2026
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Maybe you’re the “Mom friend” - the one with snacks and Advil and an itinerary for the day. Or perhaps you’re the “therapist friend” who processes the break-ups, grabs the tissues, and listens to your family vent. Or maybe you’re the “Dad friend”: helping people move, good with a hammer, and giving encouragement with a clap on the back. And then when it…

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